Wife Shocked to Discover Husband Spent Fortune at Kissing Booths Before Marriage

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A story of a wife struggling with her husband's past spending at adult entertainment establishments before their marriage was revealed on KBS JOY's 'Ask Anything,' causing shock and dismay. Her confession that she can't forgive him but is also afraid of divorce due to societal pressures has resonated with many, evoking sympathy.

October 27 Broadcast: Husband's Kissing Booth Visits Revealed

On the October 27th broadcast of KBS JOY's 'Ask Anything,' an anonymous story of a wife contemplating divorce due to her husband's past visits to "kissing booths" was shared.

'Ask Anything' is a program that deals with various concerns and stories from viewers, introducing realistic and sometimes shocking tales each episode. This story was no exception, leaving many viewers in disbelief.

Suspicious Text Messages Discovered Before Marriage

The story dates back to before the marriage. The wife accidentally saw a suspicious notification on her then-boyfriend's phone:

"We have a new girl. Weekend reservations are full, but we can make a special exception for you."

The wife asked her boyfriend,

"Where did you make a reservation?"

But her boyfriend simply replied,

"It's spam."

At the time, the wife had no choice but to believe him. However, a sense of unease lingered in her mind.

70 Million Won Missing During Wedding Preparations

During the process of checking each other's assets while preparing for the wedding, a bigger suspicion arose. The wife discovered that nearly 70 million won was missing from her boyfriend's account.

When she asked where he had spent such a large sum of money, her boyfriend replied,

"I invested in cryptocurrency."

However, this answer did not satisfy the wife. During their three-year relationship, her boyfriend had never shown any interest in cryptocurrency or stocks.

Suspicious, the wife heard a story through a male friend.

"Some men spend a lot of money at adult entertainment establishments."

"Did You Go to Adult Entertainment Establishments?" He Denied It

The wife mustered the courage to ask her boyfriend directly if he had visited adult entertainment establishments.

But her boyfriend's reaction was fierce.

"Are you crazy?"

He vehemently denied it, so the wife put her unease aside and went ahead with the wedding. She had suspicions, but there was no clear evidence, and the wedding preparations were already well underway.

Problematic Text Message Discovered Again After Marriage

However, the truth came to light after the marriage. When the wife's phone broke, she borrowed her husband's old phone and saw another problematic notification:

"Boss, 'Moje' is ready today. You'll be here, right?"

The wife didn't understand the meaning of this message, so she asked her male friend, who gave her a shocking answer.

"I looked it up, and it seems like this is a term used in places like kissing booths. It means 'excluding all events.' It means providing basic service without additional fees or events."

'Moje' is an abbreviation for 'all exclusions,' a slang term used in adult entertainment establishments.

Husband's Confession: "I Only Kissed"

That night, the wife confronted her husband. Unable to avoid it any longer, her husband finally confessed.

"I only kissed."

The husband drew a line, saying, "I only kissed," but the following words were even more shocking.

"I didn't actually sleep with anyone, but they kept asking me to. I'm really sorry. I was out of my mind. Work was hard, and I didn't know how to relieve stress, and my senior told me about it, and I got addicted to dopamine."

The husband blamed stress and dopamine addiction. However, he emphasized one thing:

"I haven't gone since I met you. I will only look at you for the rest of my life."

He begged, saying that he hadn't gone after meeting the wife and that he would only look at her for the rest of his life.

70 Million Won Spent on Kissing Booths

In the end, it was revealed that the nearly 70 million won that disappeared before the wedding was spent at adult entertainment establishments such as kissing booths. The husband's past, which he had tried to hide with the lie of cryptocurrency investment, was revealed.

70 million won is by no means a small amount of money. This means that the husband did not simply go out of curiosity once or twice, but rather went regularly for a considerable period of time.

"Let's Forget the Past" vs. "I Can't Forgive You"

After the confession, the husband and wife's thoughts differed greatly.

The husband said:

"We can forget the past and live well."

The husband's position was that it was already in the past, and since he hadn't gone after meeting the wife, they should forget it and live well in the future.

But the wife's heart was different.

"The fact that he went to such a place makes me angry... I don't think I can have a marital relationship because I keep thinking about my husband going to kissing booths."

For the wife, the fact that her husband went to such a place was unacceptable. Her confession that she even felt repulsed by her marital relationship with her husband shows how deeply hurt she was.

"I'm Afraid of Divorce Because of What Others Will Think"

However, the wife's situation was even more complicated.

"I'm afraid of divorce because of what others will think."

She can't forgive him, but she is afraid of the surrounding gaze on divorcing shortly after getting married.

In Korean society, the divorce of newlyweds is still a topic of much discussion. In particular, women often face a harsher gaze. The wife was unable to make a divorce decision easily because of this social pressure.

The Wife Caught in a Dilemma

The wife was in a difficult situation.

If she forgives her husband and continues her marriage, she cannot have a normal marital relationship because she is reminded of the fact that her husband went to kissing booths.

If she gets a divorce, she is afraid of the gaze and prejudice of those around her.

She also feels a great sense of betrayal towards her husband, who spent a large sum of 70 million won at adult entertainment establishments before the wedding and hid it with lies.

Not an Easy Decision

It is unknown what decision the wife will make in the future. She may choose to divorce, or she may give her husband a chance.

What is important is not the eyes or face of others, but the wife's own happiness. If she cannot forgive him, it may be better to make a courageous decision than to live while forcibly enduring it.

Conversely, if she believes that her husband is sincerely repenting and can change in the future, giving him a chance is also the wife's choice.

Whatever the decision, I hope it is for the wife herself.

Source :https://blog.naver.com/roadtowrestling/224055856832

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